Why is it so easy to fall in love with a Russian bride?
March 7, 2010
There are many beautiful hot Russian brides on the internet searching for a foreign partner. And many men's inboxes will be flooded with emails from stunning Russian girls, many men will be immediately infatuated with these stunning Russian brides.
Online, long-distance relationships take more time to develop than your usual relationship; here are a few ways to tell the difference between infatuation and the real thing.
What is Infatuation vs. love? Well here's what the experts say: Infatuation focuses on the physical. Love seeks out emotional and intellectual compatibility as well. Infatuation dives right in with irrational zeal. Love holds back and takes time to develop. Infatuation has elements of jealousy, panic and even addiction.
Love is secure and can handle separation. Infatuation is a firework that burns hot and wild but eventually fades. Love is more like a pilot light that ignites but keeps a steady flame. Infatuation demands the other person to return the same feelings.
Love demands nothing in return. Infatuation focuses on self-gratification. Love wants what's best for the other person. Infatuation is weakened by time. Love is strengthened by it. Infatuation wants to spend all its time with the other person. Love allows breathing room....
Sometimes sexual fantasies about someone other than our partner catch up to us in bed. Sometimes it is another woman, several people, someone you know, or something else that is definitely unacceptable for a decent woman... What does that mean and is it time to go see a psychiatrist?! Here is some information from sexologists that should calm you down.
Let's refer to the facts. I'm not quite sure how you can research something so intangible but scientists have calculated that sexual fantasies happen to 60% of women. When it comes to men there are different numbers ranging from 35% to 76%. It usually happens during masturbation or even sexual intercourse, especially if you are not too close to the partner or are not in love. Then our imagination offers a more appealing image.
So does that mean that fantasies appear where there is no love? Not necessarily. Perhaps we shouldn't even look for such a pattern, these two things are not even that related. Let's look at the purpose of the fantasies rather than the reason why they happen. Why do they appear, what do they bring with them, how do they change our condition? They help us get...
It is slightly different from 'senior' which has more of an age implication, though the two terms usually apply together. We don't in general mean people who are looking for a partner much older than themselves (this is relatively unusual and a specialised dating area).
By 'mature' we mean people who have reached a stage in life (which may not be age related ie senior) when they have experienced one or maybe more serious long term relationships - they probably have children, and very probably a divorce (or two, even more) in their history. They have worked for a living and learned the lessons of the workplace - indeed their career might still be continuing or even ended. They are looking for a partner who is round about the same age or of the same generation and they have a fairly well developed idea of the kind of person they are seeking - their attributes, habits and interests - eg fun loving guy, must be able to laugh at himself, solvent with a full head of hair, likes eating out and hiking.
In terms of age they are probably over 30 and maybe a...
How Long Should You Wait To Have Sex If You're in A Relationship?
January 10, 2010
You've just started dating this special man and the mutual sexual appeal is evident. You like this guy so intensely however you're worried sex might ruin everything and you need to decide what he wants from the relationship without appearing like your coming on to heavy.
As magical as sex can be, sex also has the ability to come between two people. When sex is brought into a relationship, things start to change.
If a guy and girl decide on a non committed relationship with a sexual component being the main focus of the relationship, then that's one thing, but, when there is a special connection of the romantic kind, if sex is brought into the equation too soon during the relationship, sex has the potential to bring down what could have been a wonderful new beginning.
For many men, sex can be a prerequisite in order for him to want to keep his new flame in his life. As a result, many women are having sex prematurely so as not to disappoint her man, or risk losing him.
The contrasting views society has placed on men and women is never more evident when it comes to sex. There seems...
If you want to connect with women you have to know how to talk to women
The progression from meeting a woman to having sex goes through 3 distinct phases..... Attraction - Comfort - Seduction
connection and forming a bond with a woman is part of the comfort phase so we can safely assume if you are trying to make her feel comfortable and connect with her that she IS attracted to you (otherwise you're going to end up in the dreaded friends zone!)
ok, so lets get down to learning how to connect with women.
fact#1 women connect on an emotional level, men connect on a logical level
have you ever tried connecting with a woman about something technical? something like, the efficiency of a gas motor? The intricacies of financial planning? if you did, then I'm willing to bet you never connected with her. The examples above are predicated on logic and most women simply don't get the emotional stimulation they CRAVE when you engage them like that.
you need to stimulate her emotions!
Tip#1 connect with her using vivid storytelling
(Once again, I'm assuming she is attracted to you already) Tell her a story about your past or...
Successful Online Dating - finding that perfect someone.
January 4, 2010
Online dating can bring you whatever you want. That's why it's worth looking into.
We're not saying that you should stop going to bars and stop picking up babes at the corner grocery stores. If you enjoy doing it, then more power to you. You might find however, that more misunderstandings happen when you leave things up to chance. For example, if you meet someone in a bar, you really don't know if this person is looking for a fling, or maybe they are counting on you for financial support.
When you use an online dating service, you can screen your potential lovers and avoid the ones you know are not going to be compatible.
Beginning the dating process, we often focus on what we want in our dating partner and not his - her present reality. Our rational self is often held captive by our imagination and blinded by desire. The moment we are introduced to someone, or view some photos, profiles or personal ads online, we immediately enter an imaginary world, especially if he - she is physically attractive. It is our own little world constructed by our imagination; at this point, we lose all sense of reality....
Hey. Sorry about the wacky title, but I wanted to get your attention to tell you about this concept that can allow you to extend how long you can have sex for by 100% if you do it right. That means that if you can currently last 9 minutes in the sack, this technique could allow you to last almost 20! Here’s how it goes.
The reason you come too quickly when you suffer from premature ejaculation is because there’s too much friction on your penis. The stimulation gets too intense and your climax is triggered. So, what can you do to stop this from happening? You can increase the lubrication. One common way to do this is to use shop-bought lube, like KY jelly or something. This is okay, but it’s not great. You have to keep applying it, which is annoying for you and your partner. A much better way is to pleasure your partner so much before and during sex that she becomes and stays soaking wet herself, without the aid of artificial lube.
This is a good idea for two reasons. First, it keeps things slick, so the...
I sit here and shake my head as I follow the Tiger Woods mess. "How is it possible," I ask myself, "for a guy who has everything in the world to use such poor judgement?" As this story evolves I'm sure we'll get many more juicy titilating tales of affairs and trysts out of this fine example of poor judgement.
Until now, Tiger Woods has had a pristine image as a superstar golfer, solid husband and father. Many considered him the top role model for today's youth.
But this article is not about belittling the fact that Tiger Woods may turn out to be the modern version of Casanova - "The World's Greatest Lover."
Giacomo Girolamo Casanova de Seingalt (1725-1798) was a Venetian author and adventurer. But he is most famous for being one of the worlds greatest womanizers, with his name - Casanova - being synonymous with the art of seduction.
Some may argue that others should hold the title of Casanova, Wilt Chamberlin - around 20,000 women (so he claimed), Gene Simmons of KISS - several thousand women documented by photos, and many other public figures. But Tiger Woods is a phenomenon all to himself, his fame and...
When the escapades of Tiger Woods hit the news, many were disappointed in him. It happens all the time, but - Tiger Woods? Well, it does happen all the time, of course. Why? What explains the Tiger Woods Affair?
Why Men Cheat: The Top 10 Reasons.
Being unfaithful can be either emotional or physical. A person can either cheat on their partner by sleeping with or dating someone else, or they can allow another person to invade their heart.
Our relationships expert, Diane Fisher lists the top 10 reasons why men cheat:
1. Because they had the option
2. It boosts their ego
3. You grow apart
4. You argue a lot
5. They have fallen out of love
6. Your sex life stinks
7. To get revenge
8. It's new, different and exciting
9. To see if they can get away with it
10. Because you have allowed it in the past
But the relationship expert adds that the reasons may be more complex than those outlined above, or may include two or more reasons.
Infidelity is a very tough hurdle to get over in a relationship. It breaks one of the very foundations of a partnership - that...
Best Adult Dating Sites: Top Online Dating Sites Reviewed
December 10, 2009
Top Adult dating Sites review:
Internet dating has exploded in recent years. Many people have met their current partner through internet dating. There are a lot of online dating sites that are aimed at specific age groups, nationalities etc. In this article we are going to review several online adult dating websites. These sites have millions on members and are some of the most popular. So you have a good chance of meeting someone right for you through the following dating sites:
Asia Friendfinder: Probably the largest online personal dating site targeted towards Asians with over 2,946,339 active members. The site has both a traditional and simplified Chinese character sets. Its also has an english interface.
Amigos.com: This is the Spanish/Portuguese version of FriendFinder and includes a Spanish, English, and brand new Portuguese interface. It has a huge Hispanic and Latino membership, including all of Mexico and South America, Brazil, Spain, Portugal, and the Spanish-speaking population in the US.
Big Church: This site is excellent and has over 500,000 members. Its a great, safe, place for christians to find friends or partners online.
BreakThru: "Pure Email No Spam" according to the site. You create a new email account and they...
Want to give your man a thrilling experience like never before? Here are 5 really simple ways to make your lovemaking hotter, steamier and more passionate, starting tonight!
1. THE BEST POSITION FOR HIS ENJOYMENT
Practically every animal species utilizes the rear-entry "doggy-style" position, so it is a natural one for humans to enjoy, as well. While you won't have face-to-face contact, there are many benefits. It's great for guys because it gives them full control. This is one of the best positions for hitting her G-spot and allows him to fondle your breasts, stomach, clitoris, back, neck and other sensual spots. The main benefit for your man is that he'll be able to get incredibly deep penetration (above-average guys need to be careful as deep thrusts might hit her cervix, which can be quite painful).
2. FIND YOUR MAN'S "HIDDEN ZONES
Yes, men love to be touched sensually too. I call these "hidden" zones because many people don't realize, or forget, that these areas of the body LOVE attention. While many of these zones are obvious, like the lips, groin, and inner thighs, there are also areas that, when stroked, caressed and kissed, can drive your partner wild and...
Why Western Men Seek East European Women for Marriage.
November 19, 2009
It's not uncommon for men in America to look to Eastern Europe for the woman of his dreams, his soulmate, and wife. Why? Well, this is the six million dollar question. But, in fact it is not so hard to understand once you understand what factors are involved.
>> Marriages between Western men and East European women are steadily increasing each year in the USA, Canada and the UK.
You could probably think of several reasons why these foreign women are looking for western men given their economic and social plight, but what about the men? What are their motives - to go half way around the world to meet these foreign women and then having to deal with the Immigration process?
Aren't there plenty of women here in the U.S?
Maybe so, but why a lot American men are turned off by today's new American Woman is another whole subject, brother. Many American and Canadian men still have solid family values - values that are being eroded in the West. But - in Eastern Europe - there are still countless women who believe passionately in those same family values. This is a contributing factor for western men looking elsewhere...
Over jealous and possessive partners put at risk the core elements this behaviour intends to uphold. Know the signs to look out for if your relationship is heading in this direction...
Jealousy in itself is a normal reaction when a partner blatantly crosses boundaries through obvious sexual remarks or physical behaviour, or if a relationship has had infidelity issues in the past.
Someone who is jealous by instinct almost certainly will lack self confidence. A jealous person by nature feels threatened that their looks, personality, wit or sense of humour won't stack up against other admirers their partner comes into contact with. By limiting a partners exposure to other people builds both anxiety and resentment whereby the relationship becomes a battle for survival.
By keeping your other half on an increasingly short leash is not the way to overcome jealousy. Take proactive measures to work on any self esteem and self image issues. Confidence in itself is a powerful attraction and is the best way to keep your partners attention on you.
* Trust issues
Being rejected and devastating break ups is part of the journey on the road of love and broken hearts. Tender moments in our lives tend...
If you are feeling in a little mundane in your sex life and need a little excitement but don't know where to look then there are some good spots on the internet for you. Don't be skeptical. Sex dating can be a lot of fun and fills that sexual void in your life that you are craving.
There are people out there just like you who can't meet that person to get a little loving from without all of the other expectations of commitment and relationships. You can meet them online and have your fun-filled evening in less time than you might expect. Sex dating online is not for those who want relationships.
These sites are where people go to find someone looking for a good time, and that is all. Adult dating caters to men and women of all sexual orientations. If your marriage needs a little extra something, they can fix you up with swingers too. They have every bit of sexual variation that you could be looking for without discrimination or judgments. They are there to provide you with that steamy date that will more than satisfy your every...
How to seduce her: Get her into bed tonight - formulas that work!
October 12, 2009
Seduce a woman: Take a look how easy it can be to convince her that you're the one she needs!
1. Tell her how bad you messed up.
Perhaps you backed into someone's parked car and fled the scene un-noticed, or maybe you stole someone else's idea at work and took the credit for it - own up to it. Making it known that you had an error of judgment makes you seem defenseless which will see a woman's instincts kick in and she will want to hug you. Owning up to an error will win her over and shows that you trust her judgment and sentiment. By this stage she should experience a combination of compassion and assurance in you and she will want to make everything better - she may even take advantage of your vulnerability.
2. Make her body your temple.
After a few months of being intimate with her, alleviate her insecurities, (all women have them) pick a day where you have the whole day together in bed, pull down the sheets and run your eyes and fingers from the top of her body - slowly - making loving remarks as you slowly make your way...
Revenge: 5 Constructive Ways to get Back at Your Ex.
September 29, 2009
Relationships are delicate attatchments that need to be developed and maintained in order to keep them healthy and enable them to grow, prosper and flourish.
Regrettably, break ups do happen and they are heartbreaking, stressful and at times very frustrating. If you are involved in a relationship that breaks up, you may be thinking that you yearn to get back at your ex but is this really the right step to take? One of the most instrumental ways that you can actually get back at your ex will not only put your ex in an intriguing situation but it may also help heal the relationship by showing your ex how important you are and were to them. So not only are these 5 constructive tips to get back at your ex but they are also outstanding methods for getting your ex back as well.
1. Be strong. 'No one needs the needy' and this saying applies very well when it comes to broken up relationships. Pleading, clinging or demonstrating the behaviour of someone who is feeling desperate must cease immediately. Let your ex think that you are getting on just fine without them by showing that you are strong and...
One of the hardest decisions you may make in life is figuring out when to end a relationship. It is difficult to break up with someone when you have invested so much time with them and allowed them to intimately know you. It doesn't matter if it has been 3 months or 3 years, it is still not easy. Faced with this, you will still sometimes decide that breaking up is the best thing for both of you. How do you know?
Being in love with your partner does not mean that there isn't a time to end the relationship. You may be wondering when to do it or why. Perhaps you feel that you should not break up if you are still in love. You might think that you should try to work things out and in the end it will be worth it.
It is common for some people to give up on their relationship before they have tried to correct the problems. Being in love isn't going to automatically guarantee that you will have a good relationship. There may be problems. But, it might be in your best interest to at least try to work on the...
We have strategically researched crucial key elements to thrust your sex life through the roof. Take out your diary and add these to your checklist.
Be original.
By creating your own sex positions, as a couple you are proving to each other that you are very comfortable in your relationship according to Susan Crain Bakos, author of The Orgasm Bible. You have both crossed the line of experimenting, it's now time to explore.
Fine tune some of your older sex positions. Perhaps you have found previous pleasures in the back entry position, try to create new heights, stand on the ground and have her lean over the bed. Same goes with any other position, mix things up, try different rooms of the house, the kitchen and laundry usually have benches or tables that will allow you to improvise.
Assign a new day of pleasure.
Putting aside a special day/evening each week or month for pure sex will build anticipation, and stoking the mantle piece will be worth the wait. Some say planning ahead for sex takes away spontaneity, but we think planning ahead increases sexual tension. This can also include taking a bath together, a full body massage, or strip...
We interviewed 813 women over a twelve month period via online chat sessions regarding their sex lives. With their permission, we have published and summarized some results that will give men some very valuable insight into the core sexual needs and wants of modern women.
No it's not a myth, she DOES want more.
The most sexually satisfied women are having sex 2 -3 times a week, with 40% of this group lusting for more. Women define sex in a much broader sense than men, which does not always equate to sexual intercourse. Women indicated that a combination of regular sex and feeling sexy in general was what counted as feeling sexually satisfied.
Let your lady know that she is on your mind during the day, try mixing things up by texting her a request to wear her sexy red dress when you meet up for dinner. You could even go one step further and add to the request regarding what under wear you would like her to wear (or not wear). You just know that you are going to drive her wild.
An incredible 100% of our respondents acknowledged that warm up sex was a huge factor in feeling...
Speed dating - the need for speed - get the facts!
September 11, 2009
Speed dating is not for the faint of heart. You may find love - or a date, what ever the possible outcome is - you need to steel yourself to face rejection.
For those who have not experience the pleasure and pain of speed dating, the idea is that a bunch of singles get together and each person has a chance to spend a few minutes with a prospective date.
A bell or some other audible signal is used to let the speed daters know it's time to switch partners. At the end of the night, each participant confidentially indicates who they're interested in. Any two singles that match are given each other's contact details.
There are obvious pros and cons to speed dating. The big plus is that there is no need to establish who is or who isn't available, everyone there is single and looking for a date. Say for example, dating websites , where many of you will know about online singles chat rooms, speed dating is similar, but in physical reality. It's an easy, modern way to meet people.
But there's pressure. Sometimes friends, especially groups of women, go out for some speedy fun, only to...
